It’s not the fact that you had it bad but the perception that others had it so good.

We struggle with this image that others are happy while we suffer. Social media is a constant reminder of this. Sure the discourse can fall apart quickly. But often more than not, people are having a conversation of have’s and have-nots. And maybe this is the right conversation you want to have. But we also need to be clear, are we talking about justice or are we talking about some kind of status symbol or experience you are missing.