The gap between what we see and what is actually happening.
The gap between what we want to hear and what we need to hear.
The gap between what we say and what we actually do.
These are two very different things informed by internal narration and story.
How we cherry-pick information to inform the story (not to change it).
And if we are not careful, that gap can become a chasm making the leap to the truth more difficult to cross.
Hence why things can feel impossible because from our point of view it is.