You have. At least every once in a while. Someone may run a red light and just miss you. Maybe you bomb a presentation but your boss is in Cabo. Either way, it’s likely you are focused on the wrong thing.
If you study behavioral economics, we know that a loss hurts more than the pleasure of a gain.
As a result, we end up spending our time playing defense.
The question is are you playing the game to lose or are you playing for the win?