Sonder is the moment you realize that other people have a voice in their head that is different from yours.
When we are not clear about expressing our emotions, people will often misinterpret these signals.
As a result, we let our biases and prejudices seep in, resulting in a false assumption.
We’re wrong when we say, “They just don’t care…” That is a misinterpreted signal—a false assumption.
What’s important is taking the time to be heard and to be seen. To really communicate what it is we are feeling, otherwise, the noise in someone else’s head will get in the way from seeing things as they are.