Each of us has an internal and external locus of control.
We either believe that we have control over our outcomes or that our external conditions have control over us.
While there are certainly things that our out of control (height, zip code you are born into), we have way more control than we think we do.
Because that is what we can choose.
You can choose which story to tell.
No, you can’t choose to ignore gravity. That’s the law. Yet, learning how to defy gravity is what makes us most alive.