Authenticity

There is a growing sentiment that humans should be authentic all the time. When we express discomfort or something we don’t like, we are automatically off the hook in the name of authenticity.

This is a terrible approach to living a fulfilled life. Not because of the authenticity. It’s because we misunderstand it. My authentic self didn’t want to get up this morning, write a blog, or exercise. My authentic self is lazy. It is an appetite that can’t be squashed. Yes, be authentic in your work. But more importantly, be a professional because no one cares that the brain surgeon wanted to try a new technique today on the operating table.

We want something proven and reliable. Yes, be authentic in your relationships…to a point. Then, be humble, forgiving, and a good listener who serves.

The examples are endless. But at the end of the day, authentic people are overrated. Grown-ups understand that growth happens when we put authenticity on the chopping block.