No one goes through adversity thinking, “Wow, I would sure like to repeat that again.”
Yet, the lessons learn can carry throughout your life.
What’s difficult then is to not make things a big deal every time something “bad” happens. We just don’t know what’s good or bad for us. What will be learned. What course correction it makes.
What we can count on is that humans are adverse to change. We can’t stand it. And change is the constant.