Lightweight

I recently was told of a story of a patient on hospice before she past said, “It was all so much fun.”

That really hit. The lightness. The joy. The embrace.

I can’t help but wonder how the default state is when we sleep and life as we know is the dream.

The part

Looking the part, acting the part—you feel the part.

There’s nothing wrong with doing the little things to get you in the mood to do your best work.

But what a professional does is do the work despite how they feel.

The heart surgeon doesn’t decide to wing it with a patients chest open. They get to work cause someone needs them.

I think that same attitude we can bring to our work.

The part

Looking the part, acting the part—you feel the part.

There’s nothing wrong with doing the little things to get you in the mood to do your best work.

But what a professional does is do the work despite how they feel.

The heart surgeon doesn’t decide to wing it with a patients chest open. They get to work cause someone needs them.

I think that same attitude we can bring to our work.

If and when

If and when are traps. It creates an unrealistic expectation that when things are just right then you can take the next step forward. The alternative is to decide which direction you want to go and head that way.

Load management

There’s a thing in basketball where players will sit out trying to ride the season out to be ready for the playoffs. Preserving their bodies for competitive advantage down the stretch.

Except when you look at the greats like Michael Jordan, he played all 9 times.

I have no idea what it takes to be a professional athlete. So, this isn’t a knock on players. But the prevailing wisdom in this era of basketball is that fewer miles now means more miles later. (Preserving tread on the tire.) And I am not sure that is how we should play our cards.

Funny, I did the same with video games growing up, hoarding resources and thinking I needed them for the final boss. This is obviously different from a professional athlete. The point I am trying to make is that we tend to hoard what we have at the moment for fear of being caught in the future. We don’t want to be in that position. As a result, we play it safe today. We play with caution. But we have no idea what tomorrow looks like. However, we struggle to imagine that we could be in a better position because the “worst case scenario” is easier to play out in our heads.

Mentors

Where have all the outlaws, poets, beats, punk rockers, anarchists, and pirates gone?

Over the years, I’ve seen a decline in climbing where it used to attract misfit toys.

Instead climbing evolved. In some ways for the better and others for the worse.

I really believe the part we are missing is the mentorship component. While it is great that the barrier of entry to these sports has gone down, climbers starting out will miss steps because it’s so easy to jump in.

As a result, we see a decline in style. Emphasis on getting to the top. We also lose what the ethos of climbing was to begin with—a safe haven for the outcasts.

This can be interpreted as old man yelling at clouds but I do think we need to remember that climbing is dangerous just like anything else we do. That’s where the juice is. And adding another layer of insulation misses the point. I’m not saying “let’s climb without ropes.” What I’m saying is when we can’t take any risks, then we discover nothing within ourselves.

A mentor helps us connect the past and the present.

Missed opportunities

It’s difficult to be generous when you are tired, hungry, or angry.

Perhaps then, the most generous act we can make is to take care of ourselves first.

But, of course, if we are waiting around until we are in the mood then we miss so many opportunities to make a positive impact.

Almost done

With art, we are always in a state of almost done. The reason? Because the art is never finished. Only the artist can decide when they are done. There’s always another sentence that can be tweaked, another iteration of code, another brush stroke. The trick is deciding when you are done so you can move on to the next thing.